every one want to marry right ????
doesn't care what your religion but its advice you to marry.....
In Islam also want their follower (muslimin and muslimat) to find partner for the entire life....
so what you think about arranged marriage......thats mean that you only marry with the person that decided by your parents and don't care about your decision.....hurm hurm hurm .....
why i'm talking about this???? because now today,,,in this ERA....MODERN.....still have parents thats make decision for their children.....and if the children doesn't agree with it,, they will say " you are fallen children....does not fit to be my child"....
my opinion is the arranged marriage does not suitable for this era any more..
because today most of the teenagers have their own partner such as boyfriend and girlfriend.....
so they love each other so much....but in the mean time they don't want to get marry cause they still studying....
but when the parents suddenly planned the arranged marriage....its will bring lot lot trouble...
the person will not focus on their study.....the person will lost hope......and they keep thinking why they want to marry with the person (planned).....
marry also its about LOVE...TRUST....LOYALTY....and HONESTY.......................
so if the arranged marriage so not good .......maybe the marriage end soon....i don't pray for that but it possible to come true.....
so think properly before you made decision....
because this decision you make its decision of YOUR WHOLE LIFE........
i don't want any regret from you....so think deeply .....deep down in your heart....
who do you want to live the rest of your life.....
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